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The money mystery

We live to our means, and that explains the fact that I've never had more money at the end of the week regardless of the size and number of pay rises. When my wife and I paid out our mortgage you'd expect that we'd have had that monthly payment sitting snug in a bank account at the end of each month, or I expected that. Not once, and as I write in The Herald today I was mystified as to where it went. A few years ago as she found more time with the reduction in our at-home family my wife joined the paid workforce, and my expectation that her after-tax salary would be surplus to requirements was foolish.

Sure, we spend it, although I'll admit that I haven't always been so sure. Maybe, I've thought, some bankee somewhere is growing fat on my failure to check bank statements. But we do spend it on big and little things. The big things include cars, computers and a yet-to-be-paid-for caravan. I don't have a clue what the little things are but I assume there are a host of them because the big things cannot account for the missing moolah.

But big or little, do these things improve our lives? Are we better off for the fact that we have a higher income, a higher disposable income particularly, than in times past?

When we were on one income, and that income was lower, we had two cars, and we were no worse off for the fact that they were secondhand or old. We had a computer, and while my current laptop is very much an optional extra I'd have had one then if I'd wanted one. We had a camper caravan, and the fact that it was secondhand rather than new didn't matter one iota.

In short, we enjoyed life with an adequate income no less than we enjoy life now with a significantly higher income. And I don't see any evidence that our rich friends find more satisfaction and enjoyment in life than such relative paupers as my wife and me.

So what, then, of your and my lifelong pursuit of more money, of wealth?

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The pursuit of money (wealth) is a lifelong struggle for most people. Most of our parents knew virtually nothing about making money or creating wealth, and therefore had no knowledge to pass on. The best they could do was pass on the [flawed] commonly held belief that if you work hard at school, maybe do some tertiary training, and get a secure job, you'd be ok. Unfortunatley that philosophy simply makes most people lifelong wage slaves [like their parents]. There is much better knowledge available now (there was back then, too, but less widely publicised). Books like "Rich Dad Poor Dad" should be required reading in all schools. If they were, we'd be the wealthiest nation on the planet. But ~ as you rightly ask, Jeff ~ would we also be the happiest? Not necessarily, but probably. Money does solve a lot of problems. [Sure, it brings some problems, too, but which set of problems would you rather be working on?] Sophie tucker is believed to have said "I've been rich and I’ve been poor -- and believe me, rich is better". She's right. Poor people can't really help poor people.
Posted by StopPayingTheBludgers, 23/02/2009 3:54:39 PM
I had in mind levels between poor and rich, where we have enough. Do we ever have enough? I don't strive not to be poor, because I am not poor, nor do I strive to be wealthy, because that is beyond me. I do, however, strive for more, and I suspect I strive for nothing!
Posted by Jeff Corbett on 24/02/2009 7:55:22 AM
Its all about your attitude and how you approach life. I have a few very wealthy friends who lead miserable lives and always seem unhappy - complaining about everything all the time. Then again, I have friends who earn next to nothing, but give them a surfboard and a few hours in the sun and they are the happiest people on Earth. What brought it home for me was a recent trip to Fiji - here I was paying thousands to stay in a great resort, surrounded by wealthy people complaining about the dent in the BMW or that the lobster wasn't big enough - I did a trip to the local village where the traditional Fijian people live - the happiest people I have every met despite having no shoes, no electricity, limited housing and being an hour by boat to the nearest BMW dealership!!
Posted by King Idiot, 23/02/2009 6:30:45 PM
I'm not sure of Ralph's income but he comes from Belmont, he's close to eighty, is blind ,has a guide dog, a good knowledge of sailing and is part of a kind group that premotes sailability (sailing for the disabled )at the Belmont 16 Footers. Ralph and his mates hosted families from Vision Australia for a morning of sailing on the Lake. The small craft seated two, so a sighted person was paired with a blind person. Ralph asked young Joe, who had no sailing experience, if he would like a go, which he did. Ralph's guide dog jumped out,perhaps to make room,perhaps from previous experience.However Ralph was a master of sailing, he had knots tied into the rope and bells tied to his sails to make him aware of the conditions as he sailed the triangular course marked by buoys which transmitted sounds to indicate their postion.It was'nt a race but some people can't help themselves.Afterwards we had a cup of coffee,i carried the cups to the table after a moment he asked me where the coffee was.It was easy to forget.
Posted by chaff and oats, 23/02/2009 10:02:39 PM
I have the answer for you Jeff. You help your kids out financially! Paper runs and odd jobs can't supply enough income for their needs. As they get older (and you get older) it gets worse. Do Molly's famous Wardrobe Test. Look in there and compare what they have with what you wore. How much space do they need compared with you as a youth? Also Molly's Sling Index. When they ask you to sling 'em a few buck to tide them over how much is it? As they get older, and look to buy a house or car, the slings grow exponentially into tens of thousands. I define a sling as a loan that neither party expects to be repaid!
Posted by Molly M, 24/02/2009 5:25:34 AM
I believe Jeff in one of your articles recently you stated that you were not eligable for the Governments $900 or part there off. That puts you in the over $100,000 per year bracket. Plus your wife works, you own your home, and you cannot save any money! Mate are you spending money on bikes, tatts, beer and pokies.
Posted by buell, 24/02/2009 6:48:45 AM
No tatts or pokies, not much on beer and nothing for a few years on bikes. No OS, snow or resort holidays. No expensive cars. No fine dining. No wine. No lobster.
Posted by Jeff Corbett on 24/02/2009 8:03:02 AM
Yes Jeff, I have found the same, as my income varied still had bugger all at the end of the week.
Posted by neilium, 24/02/2009 6:54:46 AM
It's a relief, Neilium, that I'm not alone! I was beginning to suspect that I might be.
Posted by Jeff Corbett on 24/02/2009 8:03:49 AM
Sorry Jeff, not sure whats going on for you money wise, but we have two incomes and save one of them. We are both in the under $70,000 bracket. Like you own our home. I don't consider myself wealthy, just blessed at this stage of my life. We have raised two of my children and two relatives children. Just an observation, i do know alot of Publicans who have benefited greatly from the introduction of Poker machines. Most i would say are unhappy and very stressed. I have thought, what would i do if i won $1,000,000! The answer keeps coming back, nothing much for myself. I guess personally i want for nothing.
Posted by buell, 24/02/2009 8:40:27 AM
"the best thing you can do for the poor is not become one of them". (Bob Harington). About 12 years ago i was divorced, broke (in debt in fact), and nearly broken. Within a year i was still financially broke, but felt the richest i've ever felt - you find out who your friends are, and that family is a constant. As Bob Dylan puts it in the classic Like a rolling Stone, "when you've got nothing you've got nothing to lose". I've since educated and elevated myself, and now have a strong asset base, good income, and importantly a very strong memory of a time not so long ago when i had nothing but opportunity.
Posted by fista, 24/02/2009 8:48:53 AM
Hi Jeff, we have found that the only way to get ahead is this - every time you get a pay rise you increase the % of your pay that you put into superannuation. Keep part of the pay rise and put the rest into super. It makes a huge difference to your super especially as we started doing this when we were about 30. As for Mollys wardrobe test - i just wish mine would put their stuff in the wardrobe. they have what we refer to as a 'Floor-robe'.
Posted by senior sergeant smith, 24/02/2009 8:51:17 AM
Jeff ~ I suppose that within a 'relevant range', getting more won't change your general lifestyle. Similarly, achieving certain milestones [paying off your house, and therefore having a sudden change in diposable income] won't make a significant difference in lifestyle or perceived wealth. Within that 'relevant range', once you are comfortable, you might as well ease off and enjoy your life. To go beyond that range, it might be necessary to aspire to quite substantial wealth to appreciate the effort / outcome. I certainly believe that becoming very wealthy is not beyond me, and I have an obligation to do exactly that, not because I want Ferraris or caviar, but because I know for certain that those who can MUST. There will be a LOT of people depending on us in the future.
Posted by StopPayingTheBludgers, 24/02/2009 9:26:46 AM
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